So here they are:

 

Absolute Honesty
Absolute Unselfishness
Absolute Love
Absolute Purity

Whoa, now that's a tall order, and no one could live up to it.  But here's how I use it.  When I get an idea in my head, and I want to know that it meets "the test" for God's will, I compare the idea against these fear ideals.  If I do this, or if I say this, am I being absolutely loving, absolutely unselfish, absolutely honest, and are my intentions pure.  Of course, I can kid myself about that.  But in the end, the 4 absolutes have done me more good than harm.  I have been able to, for example, hold my tongue from saying something Honest that doesn't need to be said, because saying it would not be absolutely loving.  (Note that it seems that two of the principles are at conflict here, but they're not.  In order to pass the test, it has to pass all four, not just one or two.  If one fails, the others are meaningless.)  

I don't apply it all the time, and when I don't, I tend to suffer for it.